"He beat you and you went back? You's officially stupid.
Oh yea, I understand that's your man, you had a plan
You been together for some years, you sticking with him for the kids
So you over look the tears, but we both know that's a bad look
Cause 20 years from now your daughter probably get her ass whooped..."
But let's get started...
Never was I a fan of men that beat on women. Like, it's never that serious. (Albeit I did laugh at that uppercut from the bus driver, but I mean, that video was hilarious.) Women beaters & a man that hit a woman are different in my opinion though.
See, a women beater is a man that simply beats on a woman for sheer joy, power and control, or respect. Those type of men are scum, like Alfalfa toe type of scum.
How can a man justify beating on a woman? I'll wait...it's impossible. You just can’t justify these actions, I’m ashamed you even just took the time out to think of a response for that question. There's never a time to beat on a woman. A woman should never have to beg a men to stop while he's just getting a kick out of it (no pun intended), that's sick man, you men doing it are sick man.
To the women who are being beat on, my heart goes out to y'all. Writing this blog almost brought tears to my eyes man. I have a mother, sisters, nieces, etc., & I can't fathom the thought of a man beating on them. I beg of you ladies to ditch the lowlife & fend for yourself. Claiming that you love him or you're scared to leave just won't cut it for me. Those excuses are weak & played out in my opinion. If you truly wanted to leave, you could. I do empathize with some of you though. I understand a lot of woman who are beat on feel like they will be lonely if they leave and some are so dependent on the man that it feels damn near impossible to leave (notice I said "damn near" so it is possible), but these are no excuses.
One last comment on this issue:
To the women with kids, please, I mean PLEASE, don’t let your children witness this. That's just putting fuel into the everlasting cycle of women beaters and abused women. Children are our future and like sponges, they do what they see. & if they grow up thinking this is right and acceptable, it will take some serious work and countless effort to mend their thinking. So, if you’re having trouble escaping the situation you’re in, at least keep your children away from it.